How To Truly Take Care of Yourself

We often hear the words, “Take care of yourself,” especially when facing tough times. But what does that really mean? How do you actually do it? 🤔

One approach I’ve found helpful is to tap into your Child Ego State. 👶 This concept comes from Eric Berne’s Transactional Analysis (TA) in the 1950s. Berne believed our personalities are made up of three distinct ego states: Parent, Adult, and Child. 👨‍👩‍👧 Each one influences how we think, feel, and behave. By balancing these states, we can better navigate challenges and build healthier relationships. 💪

But why focus on the Child Ego State? 🤷‍♂️

Because it’s the source of our emotions, creativity, and spontaneity. 🎨✨ When you approach life from this perspective, you unlock a fresh, playful outlook. 🌈 You become more resilient, more inventive, and more willing to embrace the process rather than fixate on the outcome.

Think about children at play—their boundless energy ⚡, their joy in discovery. 🔍 That’s what makes this mindset so powerful. It helps you tackle challenges with enthusiasm and creativity. 🎉

By deliberately choosing your ego state, you can harness your strengths and adopt a mindset that promotes well-being and growth. 🌱 It’s worked for me.

Check out my Linkedin article where I dive deeper into how deliberately embracing this mindset can improve your mental health, spark curiosity, and bring more joy into your everyday life—with practical tips on how to reclaim your inner child — give it a try! 💡